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This year, the Bayside Church family is reading through Acts and the epistles, guided by my devotional book FRESH. In the past week, we’ve been reading Paul’s first letter to the Thessalonian church, and a verse jumped out to me that I’ll discuss in this blog:

Make it your ambition to lead a quiet life: Mind your business—MYOB.

Good Ambition

In much of the New Testament, ambition has negative connotations, usually labelled selfish ambition. But here, Paul uses the word positively, encouraging these Christians to strive to outdo each other as who shall have the honour of being the most peaceable member of the church community.

The Thessalonian Christians showed love to others but weren’t always getting it right. Some were overly caring and meddlesome, giving unsolicited advice, forcing their opinions on others, and trying to control others’ actions. Have you ever encountered someone like that? Are you that person? I have learned to ask people if they would like my advice or help. I no longer presume.

Busybodies

In my decades as a Christian and a pastor, I’ve encountered far too many busybodies—interfering, nosy, and gossipy individuals who meddle uninvited in the lives of others. Bayside Church has suffered more from such people than any other immoral behaviour.

Peter also cautioned the church community against behaving this way: If you suffer, it should not be as a murderer, thief, or any other type of criminal, or even as a meddler. It’s quite striking that Peter includes busybodies and gossipmongers alongside criminals.

Over Caring

Then, some people are overbearing because of being overcaring. They are the “How are you really” crowd. They ask you how you are, and you tell them you’re fine—because you are. But they really, really want to care, so they must dig a little deeper. How are you really?

I am not suggesting that we shouldn’t ask follow-up questions or show genuine interest in others; however, we need to be cautious to ensure that our caring doesn’t become interference. I’ve met people who gather information about others by asking numerous questions and then using that knowledge to assert power. They influence people to be vulnerable to satisfy their own need for self-importance.

Paul tells the Thessalonian Christians that being meddlesome and interfering is not how God has taught us to love one another: Make it your ambition to lead a quiet life: to mind your own business—MYOB.

Quotes

Solomon wrote much about this in his wisdom collection, Proverbs. He dramatically stated: Like one who grabs a stray dog by the ears is someone who rushes into a quarrel not their own. It’s a powerful picture that meddling will ultimately cause YOU harm.

I love this anonymous quote: “Never worry about what I’m doing. Only worry about why you’re worried about what I’m doing.” Please reflect on that statement, especially if you’re one of those followers of Jesus who’s constantly venting about other people on social media. Why are you so worried about them? What does this say about you?

Irish Biblical scholar Alec Motyer, author of The Message of James, wrote: “A fig must have a fig tree as its source, a grape can only come from a vine, an olive from an olive tree; salt water has a salt source; sweet water a sweet source; bitter words a bitter heart; critical words a critical spirit; defamatory, unloving speech issues from a heart where the love of Jesus is a stranger.” (P. 127).

A Painful Lesson

A man was walking past a school, and all the kids shouted, ’13….13….13.’

The fence was too high to see over, but he saw a little gap in the planks, so he looked through to see what was happening, and someone poked him in the eye with a stick!

Then they all started shouting ’14….14….14!

MYOB

Scripture teaches us to concentrate on our own concerns without interfering in the affairs of others. It encourages us to uphold a strong work ethic in a meaningful occupation, motivating us to work diligently, rest adequately, and enjoy leisure. It inspires us to gather with fellow believers and share our lives, but refrain from meddling. It prompts us to sustain prayer, Bible reading, and study habits, all while nurturing genuine and practical care for those less fortunate than ourselves.

And so, make it your ambition to live quietly and peacefully, and to mind your own affairs and work with your hands, so that you will behave properly toward outsiders [exhibiting good character, personal integrity, and moral courage worthy of the respect of the outside world], and be dependent on no one and in need of nothing [be self-supporting]. MYOB.

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